We met on PO, finally here. The one who calls herself the writerIdiot…now this one has me in a twist. Read a few idiotic thoughts and suddenly realized idiotwriting is rather too advanced for me,lol
Loved your takes on PO, will hang around here a bit today to get a proper feel of you my lady…so far, I love it!
With friends we see the delicate balance (give and take) of any relationship in our focus. What do I want, what do i want to give, or do i look to take something, gain something. Are my friendships about what I might gain or what I might give. One side of friendship is what they are and the other is what I am. Now we know friendship is a give and take, but If one starts with taking we can drain our friend of what they have to give, leaving them empty. Or, I can focus on what I might give to this friend, what I can and will bring to the relationship. Jesus said we are to love others as we love ourselves. This is a high standard. The adventure of friendship is just in this attempt. The attempt to see and treat someone just like you want to be treated. To treat another like yourself. Am Looking to get or gain a friend, or am I looking to be a friend.
That is really beautiful ‘Someone’ 😀
I think you have hit the nail on the head.
Only thing – sometimes we don’t really treat ourselves very well, so maybe what happens too is that as friends ‘teach’ what is and is not acceptable within (ie – what does not work ) we learn to love ourselves a little more too…as iron sharpens iron?
I do not think friendship should ever be about taking really, however it is also tricky as if the other feels they have nothing to give…that can also leave them feeling empty.
Thanks for the lovely comment!
Thanks for the lovely comment
Up to you completely dear – when and if you want to – shoot me a mail at – idiotwriterbelinda@gmail.com
Oh – and PLEASE – don’t get hung up on it right? Splendid!
Thank you very much! Very kind of you 😀
I never quite got into the swing of awards (possible laziness I believe!)..but ALWAYS VERY thrilled to be offered and honoured with the lovely sentiment.
Thanks again!
~Idiot Writing~ 
We met on PO, finally here. The one who calls herself the writerIdiot…now this one has me in a twist. Read a few idiotic thoughts and suddenly realized idiotwriting is rather too advanced for me,lol
Loved your takes on PO, will hang around here a bit today to get a proper feel of you my lady…so far, I love it!
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I am glad you are enjoying so far 🙂
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With friends we see the delicate balance (give and take) of any relationship in our focus. What do I want, what do i want to give, or do i look to take something, gain something. Are my friendships about what I might gain or what I might give. One side of friendship is what they are and the other is what I am. Now we know friendship is a give and take, but If one starts with taking we can drain our friend of what they have to give, leaving them empty. Or, I can focus on what I might give to this friend, what I can and will bring to the relationship. Jesus said we are to love others as we love ourselves. This is a high standard. The adventure of friendship is just in this attempt. The attempt to see and treat someone just like you want to be treated. To treat another like yourself. Am Looking to get or gain a friend, or am I looking to be a friend.
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That is really beautiful ‘Someone’ 😀
I think you have hit the nail on the head.
Only thing – sometimes we don’t really treat ourselves very well, so maybe what happens too is that as friends ‘teach’ what is and is not acceptable within (ie – what does not work ) we learn to love ourselves a little more too…as iron sharpens iron?
I do not think friendship should ever be about taking really, however it is also tricky as if the other feels they have nothing to give…that can also leave them feeling empty.
Thanks for the lovely comment!
Thanks for the lovely comment
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Hey,
How are ya…its good to see you liking my new post 🙂
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Hey,
How are you?
I am doing ok 😀
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Im good, same im ok
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We got to be ok hey 😉 Not much choice in the matter!
Cheers!!
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Yep. Live. Laugh. Love. 🙂
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YOLO 😀
Bless you dear…
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And you. Live life cuz YODO (you only die once)
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You know you are right hey!! COs we actually do not know if we live a few more times or not…been contemplating that one lately –
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I been contemplating if everything is just a figment of our imagination…and its just a long scary dream •_•
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..one wonders sometimes hey…
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Yep yep, we are too philosophical sometimes 😀
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Ya thinks??? LMAO! Oh well – SOMEONE has to do the thinking on this planet ey 😉
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Right, we have to take this challenge 🙂
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Right ON brother! 😛
SO what now?
Can we go hide away from the world now? 😉
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Why hide, the world needs us…it demands us to keep doing what we do. 😉
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Okey dokey then – I will try my best to not run away then.
— but it is a bit weird sometimes.
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Life is weird yo, thts why u should wear bright clothes lol.
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Ah bro no man – bright clothes cost shillings to keep blinging nicely – me sticks to the jeans n black T’s my cousie – 😛
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Shillings? I like jeans and black shirts too. I like brights too
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Shillings + cash – (old English money… I think!)
Hey – I think you will like this post/poem of mine a did today – would you mind taking a read?
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Here’s the post I meant if you are interested…I have to go off to cook some food for my kids 😉
https://idiotwriting.wordpress.com/2014/07/28/spiralling-to-hide/
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This really good, I wish I thought of it 🙂
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Ah man – your poetry is beautiful. IS….
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Oh and – would you be interested in guest posting?
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I would but what would I write lol
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..um…poetry… as I said a moment ago…your poetry is always very touching.
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Thx. Ill try, when I think of an idea ill write. Is tht okay?
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Up to you completely dear – when and if you want to – shoot me a mail at –
idiotwriterbelinda@gmail.com
Oh – and PLEASE – don’t get hung up on it right? Splendid!
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Yep, when im inspired ill email ya 🙂
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Cool chap. It would be nice to have you on IW 😀
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Thx. I look forward to it 🙂
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😉 For sure.
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Hi, I emailed you…let me know what you think 🙂
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😀
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:). ? Do I post the poem or do you do it? If you can do it, please do it when you can :). Im grateful to be on IW
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will mail you dear
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Hey! I’m not sure whether you’ll want to accept, but I nominated you for the “One Lovely Blog” Award: http://myworstadvice.wordpress.com/2014/10/06/one-lovely-blog-award/
Feel free to pass, or to follow through on the rules (in the post).
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Thank you very much! Very kind of you 😀
I never quite got into the swing of awards (possible laziness I believe!)..but ALWAYS VERY thrilled to be offered and honoured with the lovely sentiment.
Thanks again!
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